“I am not my rape”

Everyone thinks that its so easy to just get out of an abusive relationship “I’d never let a man do that to me” is the phrase you hear so often but when you’re in it, that’s still the phrase that runs through your head, but along with many others “he said he’s sorry” “it only … Read more

“I am not my shame”

I was 11 years old, he was a family friend, someone I thought of as a father figure and trusted adult. My mother and Step-Dad were across the hall asleep, my younger brother was downstairs. Most of that vacation to Massachusetts is a blur, but I know my immediate thoughts were that it must have … Read more